Something like this should probably work:
function wrapper()
if( ~evalin('base','exist(''fea'',''var'')') )
h_menu_item = findall( 0, 'Label', 'Export FEA Struct To MATLAB' );
cbf = get( h_menu_item, 'Callback' );
cbf{1}( h_menu_item, [], cbf{2:end} );
end
local_fea = evalin('base','fea');
my_function( local_fea );
Note the doubled up 'single' quotes in the evailin call to get the exist call to execute with string inputs.